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This concern is Her disruptive behaviors stem from deeply entrenched survival reflexes she acquired during infancy.They've become automatic, and they're as easy/natural as breathing for her.These early behaviors are central to their Seduction Plan; as soon as they sense that you're captivated, you're with a Borderline, because they're not capable of discerning this for themselves--well, not beyond a few moments or hours at a time, anyway.One minute you're the center of their universe--but before you know it, you're dirt under their feet.You'll be feeling shocked and bewildered by this--particularly when she cites frustrations or problems you were never made aware of, to living without you!You've believed you were the center of her universe, and it was finally safe to let your guard down, and trust that she was here to stay.Losing a Borderline is like being in a hit-and-run accident.
problems, such as; desperate attempts to gain attention, intense/irrational abandonment fears, lack of empathy, extreme jealousy, lying, poor impulse control, extramarital affairs, drug/alcohol abuse, hypersexuality, 'crazy-making' interactions, low self-esteem, rebound relationships, passive-aggression, cognitive distortion, self-harming behaviors, eating disorders, suicidal ideation, stalking, etc.
Foundational problems of this kind leave men vulnerable to being seduced and manipulated by these women.
You may be extremely accomplished and successful--but the Borderline will methodically learn what's when a woman leaves--but a Borderline leaves you feeling guilty, ashamed, castrated, unlovable, emasculated, worthless, etc.
In truth, a panoply of pathologies may be associated with borderline disorder, and You might have perceived a bit of 'craziness' early on, when she'd become disproportionately volatile about minor events that were troublesome to her.
When she shared stories about (vilified) former boyfriends or lovers, you felt honored to be privy to these intimate revelations, while assuring yourself it would be stages of this relationship (the Honeymoon), you felt hopelessly captivated, and intrigued with her intensity.